#...but in my experience too many people use psychosomatic as a way to distance themselves from helping the person suffering...

[uncanny-tranny]

Actually, it's insane that "psychosomatic" is so often:

1. not neutral

and

2. actively used to undermine, discredit, and sometimes even bring scorn to somebody's condition

Imagine going through so much stress, for example, that it's eating you from the inside out and being told that you've just got a case of Crazy Idiot Who Makes Things Up For Fun to Inconvenience Us and Get Attention.